Mr. Smith vs. Mr. Jerk

I'm comfused, help me out here...

Nice Guys Finish Last

According to this article, men who are jerks are "nice guys" who have been f*cked over, right?

But this women, Heidi Muller, seems to think it's BOTH the man's AND the women's fault. Well, OK then. So they both have "issues". Fine.

HOW THE HELL DOES THAT HELP ME GET FUCKING LAID!?!??!?

If you need me, I'll be in the garage; working on the car or the bike, or anything else that doesn't require Dr. Phil's advice.

Man, you need a god damn degree in psychotherapy, just to figure half this sh*t out.